DivaToo wrote:BhamMom wrote:Since we are having "adult fun" tonight, I have a question. Do you remember the first time and what you thought?
Damn girl..at 25 I sure would hope I remember the first time!
I thought "What!? That's it? Uhm.. THIS is what I've been waiting for? Surely it gets better..."
Thank God it did better.. I was so nervous that night..He must have been too, b/c he sucked..LOL
I thought I was the oldest virgin on the board. Guess not. I was almost twenty and it was in the middle of the afternoon. For the life of me I can't imagine why I chose that moment. It seems so strange. I was actually sober. It was really weird because I had been with my b/f several months, spent many nights in his bed but refused to do "that.". I was saving myself for marriage. You know, southern gal, the big dream.
He actually understood my wanting to wait because he knew it would be his eventually.
Well, when it happened we were both embarassed. I remember he hopped out of bed and went to a friend's house because he was so embarassed that he had broken his vow. Any way, I kept waiting on the bells to ring and they never did. My thoughts were, "Is this all there is?".
That night I was introduced to oral sex and yes, it was much, much better. I actually decided that sex was good.